Song choice is one of the most powerful tools on offer when planning a ceremony. Music transcends language and speaks straight to the heart when words just aren’t enough. Time and time again, I’ve seen how a song can completely shift the energy in a room - how it can unleash boundless tears, spark a quiet smile, or even lift the whole gathering with a burst of joy. The right piece of music at the right moment holds us in a way nothing else can.
As both a Funeral Director and a life-long musician, helping you choose the right soundscape for a funeral ceremony is something I am deeply passionate about. But where to even start?! I know that choosing funeral music can easily add to the overwhelm, so I’ve put together a free resource to hopefully make things a little easier for you - a series of playlists to help guide and inspire your choices - from the classics, to the uplifting, the emotive and the unexpected.
Feel free to mix, match, and make it your own. There’s no right or wrong when it comes to songs for funerals - only what feels right for you and your person.
The Classics
These are the tried-and-true funeral songs that have stood the test of time - gentle, beautiful, emotive pieces that many people turn to when words fail. Think timeless ballads, instrumentals and classic hymns that can create a sense of reverence and calm. Perfect if you’re after something traditional or soothing.
Uplifting
Sometimes, it feels right to celebrate a life with joy, love, and even a little toe-tapping. This playlist is full of uplifting songs that lift the spirit and remind everyone of good times - whether it’s a life well-lived or the beautiful spirit of someone taken too soon. Some times the only answer is to put on a banging tune and dance.
Emotive Songs
If you want music that really lets the heart feel what it needs to feel, this list is for you. These are raw, beautiful songs that hold space for grief and can unleash important tears during a funeral ceremony. For when you want to honour the depth of the love and loss - this music will bring tears, but also comfort and release.
Unique & Unusual
Want something a little different? This is where you’ll find quirky, personal, and unexpected songs - perfect for someone who didn’t fit the mould or had a unique spark. Whether it’s a favourite indie track, a movie theme, or something that makes everyone laugh, this list is about honouring the person, and going out with a bang!
I hope these playlists give you a starting point and a little ease in what can feel like a huge task. Music matters - and choosing the right songs is a beautiful act of love for both your person, and yourselves.
Sending love,
Amy 🌿
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