Join us for an evening of open, honest, and heartful conversation about death, dying, and living well—over cake and a cuppa. In a world where death is often a taboo topic, a Death Café offers a rare space to talk openly about our mortality, our fears, our hopes, and how we make meaning of our time here.
📍 Where: RoseyRavelston Books, Lawson
🗓 When: 7pm - 9pm, Thursday 12th June,
🎟 Tickets: Free – Spaces limited to 12 participants, Book here >>
To keep the conversation spacious, thoughtful, and personal, we limit numbers to 12 participants per session. This ensures that everyone has a chance to share and engage meaningfully with the group. While attendance is free, spots are limited, so be sure to book in advance.
☕ Support the venue: RoseyRavelston have kindly donated their space—in return we can purchase their hot drinks and delicious fresh baked goods on the night.
A Death Café is a welcoming, agenda-free community gathering where people come together to talk about mortality in a safe and supportive space. There are no guest speakers, set topics, or professional facilitators—just an open dialogue where every voice is valued, and every perspective is welcome. It’s not a grief support group or counseling session—just an opportunity to explore life’s big questions, share thoughts, and listen, all while enjoying good company and delicious treats.
Hosted by Amy Firth & Kirstie Rehutai
Come with curiosity, leave with connection. 💀🍰
About Death Cafés:
A Death Café is a global movement that creates space for open, non-judgmental conversations about death, dying, and what it means to live fully. Founded in 2011 by Jon Underwood and inspired by Swiss sociologist Bernard Crettaz, Death Cafés are now held all over the world in community spaces, cafés, and homes. The format is simple—there’s no set agenda, no guest speakers, and no sales pitches—just people coming together to share thoughts, ask questions, and explore the many perspectives on mortality.
These gatherings aren’t therapy or grief support groups, but rather a chance to engage in deep and meaningful discussions that are often avoided in everyday life. Whether you come with personal experiences, existential curiosity, or simply a willingness to listen, a Death Café offers a space where all perspectives are welcome, and no question is too big or too small. Over tea, cake, and conversation, we create a supportive and thought-provoking environment where talking about death helps us embrace life more fully.
About Amy Firth:
A born & bred Blue Mountains gal, Amy is a local celebrant, interfaith minister, funeral director who believes that talking about death is one of the most life-affirming things we can do. With warmth, compassion, and a deep respect for diverse perspectives, she gently guides these gatherings, ensuring that all feel heard, held, and welcome. Amy has dedicated her work to helping people navigate life’s major transitions with authenticity and meaning and is passionate about fostering open conversations about death, grief, and remembrance, ensuring that people feel supported and empowered in their choices.
About Kirstie:
Kirstie Rehutai is a Blue Mountains death doula, guiding individuals and families through the profound journey of dying with presence, care, and dignity. As someone deeply attuned to the emotional, spiritual, and practical aspects of the end-of-life process, Kirstie provides compassionate support to those facing death, as well as their loved ones. Her work involves everything from helping people plan for their final days to sitting vigil, facilitating important conversations, and ensuring that individuals are honoured in ways that align with their values and beliefs. Whether through one-on-one support or community gatherings like the Death Café, Kirstie’s work is about honouring life by embracing death with openness and care.